Pre-Schoolers: Three to Five-Year-Olds

Your child will ask a lot of questions of you during this time period. This is the natural way your child learns and develops. 

• ANSWER your child's questions in short, simple sentences and try to be patient when she asks "Why?" over and over again. 

• DON'T tell your child to stop asking so many questions or that you don't have time to answer. Showing off and using "bad words" are typical behavior. 

• IGNORE the bad words, but pay attention to your child when she needs or wants you. 

• DON'T yell or spank your child for using swear words. Don't tell your child to go away when she is showing off.

Some children may develop certain fears during this time as part of-a developing imagination. 

• GIVE your child a nightlight or stuffed animal to help her feel more secure at bedtime. 

• DON'T tell your child she is being a "scaredy cat" or leave your child alone in the room at night to cry it out. 

A lot of time is spent playing -often imitating. 

• HELP your child develop coordination by letting your child play with puzzles, blocks and crayons. 

• DON'T get frustrated when your child is constantly underfoot. Remember your child needs lots of space to be active.